Before first going to Ailsa's house in late December 1986, I had been twice before to Brightlingsea, once to a campsite with "the families" (Kellehers, O'Connells, Southons etc.) in about 1976 and then for a party at Joanna Cousins' family's weekend home in about September 1980.
We were married at All Saints Church on 22 July 1989.
Bateman's Tower holds a special place in our collective affections, especially now that a bench commemorating my late father-in-law, Don Robertson, is at its side.